It is New Year’s Day. As a middle aged fan of U2, I have their song playing in my head yet again. All is quiet on New Year’s Day. It’s true here.
All is quiet on New Year's Day A world in white gets underway I want to be with you Be with you night and day Nothing changes on New Year's Day On New Year's Day
We cleaned the kitchen following last night’s pot pie party. Yes, Trish made a chicken pot pie. It were delicious. We watched The Fellowship of The Ring while snuggled up together with our son on the fold out couch. It was a slumber party.
Today, Hoppin’ John is in process. I will likely bake a cake in my fancy new bundt pan.
A New Year’s Franciscan Nugget:
“The peace which you proclaim with words must dwell even more abundantly in your hearts. Do not provoke others to anger or give scandal. Rather, let your gentleness draw them to peace, goodness and concord. This is our vocation: to heal wounds, to bind what is broken, to bring home those who are lost.” - St. Francis
I am forever on this journey.
Hold on. My eight year old son just walked in and wants to contribute. I told him that I am writing about gentleness. This is all him:
“Being kind. No hitting. No biting. No kicking. No punching. No spanking. No slapping. No calling people names. Don’t take things away from them. Don’t make up stories or pretend something happened when it didn’t.”
There you go. Pick your quotation today. There’s St. Francis or my son. You cannot lose either way.
Gentleness is a thing. It’s a discipline. It’s a grace. Be gentle. That’s what I’m after. It’s not a New Year’s Resolution. I don’t want to go there with it. Instead, it’s a vow, a response to divine action…even gentleness to oneself.
Y’all have a great day. Be excellent to each other.
I like the St. Francis quote. Reminds me of Thurman’s The Work of Christmas.
Wise words from that 8-year-old.
Some words of wisdom, from a much better writer than I am, to carry with you this year,
"May your coming year be filled with magic and dreams and good madness. I hope you read some fine books and kiss someone who thinks you're wonderful, and don't forget to make some art -- write or draw or build or sing or live as only you can. And I hope, somewhere in the next year, you surprise yourself."
Neil Gaiman